Asking Eric: Twin brother hijacks wedding with his own proposal

Dear Eric: I’m getting married this summer after a long engagement. We’ve planned a destination wedding. Everyone we’ve invited has said they’re very excited about it and we got almost all yeses on our RSVPs, which I’ve read is rare. I have a great feeling about the whole thing.

The problem is my twin brother, who has been dating his girlfriend for about as long as I’ve been engaged (five years). I’ve been encouraging him to pop the question for a while now. I like his girlfriend a lot and I know that they’re good for each other. I’m not pressuring, but I don’t see what the hold-up is. Of course, I’m not really one to talk, since I had a five-year engagement. But my fiancé was in school.