Dear Annie: I feel more like my husband’s house manager than his wife

Dear Annie: My husband is a good man, but lately I feel more like his house manager than his wife. I remind him about birthdays, bills, family plans and even where he left his keys. If I do not handle it, it does not happen.

I love him, but I am exhausted by carrying the invisible load. When I bring it up, he says I am “better at that stuff.” I do not want another child. I want a partner. How do I say this without sounding angry? -- Tired of Carrying It All