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Hip Hop and storytelling go hand in hand, and J.a.y. Young stands as one of Houston’s finest narrators, a connoisseur of unapologetic, heartfelt rap who radiates tenacity and authenticity in everything he does. Since 2010, his raw sincere songcraft has explored the complexities of his lived experiences and the obstacles he has overcome, while indulging listeners in decadent soundscapes inspired by diverse rap styles from coast to coast. The strength in his compelling sound lies in his mindset. Before ever stepping behind the mic, he was a “student of Hip Hop,” learning from the greats who came before him. That deep respect for the genre, paired with his undeniable skill, has led to collaborations with some of Houston’s most renowned voices, including KeKe, Killa Kyleon, Big Mike, and one of his biggest inspirations, Scarface. Committed to changing his life for the better, he has taken the path grounded in growth and purpose. Today, he continues to push forward, balancing his academic, professional, and musical ambitions while striving to set the best possible example for his three children. Recharged and refocused, J.a.y. Young continues to push forward, creating music that reflects real life with honesty, creativity, and conviction.
The one thing that unites all of humanity is a desire for connection. As meaningful and special as friendships can be, they are not always built to last a lifetime. Over a speaker-rattling beat, the narrator in Young’s “Love.hate.” grapples with the reality of growing apart from a true brother, someone who was once his ride-or-die, and the coldness that settles in without him. “It was you and me,” he reflects, “now we’re all grown up.” Yet Young’s delivery resists the expected bitterness of betrayal. Instead, it feels as though he is speaking directly to that long-lost friend, wishing him well even as their paths diverge. A soaring, cinematic chorus underscores the emotional weight of this soul-stirring reflection, signaling a stylistic evolution that matches the depth of the story. In the end, “people come, and people go,” and it’s okay to feel conflicted, hold both love and loss at once, and even carry the connection forward even as life moves on.
It’s one thing to hear Young tell this deeply relatable story, his genuine emotion woven into every word, but it’s another to watch an older, wiser version of him narrate as it comes to life in his hometown. Directed by DJ Young Samm, the “Love.hate.” music video opens on two inseparable young boys shooting hoops at Milton Park, a snapshot of everyday life spent side by side, “chasing dreams” and embracing the invincibility of youth. As time passes, they inevitably grow and change, slowly fracturing the bond they once shared until it finally breaks. The grief that accompanies losing a friendship to time, growth, and pride is not easily carried. Still, the memories they built together remain untouched, a reminder that what they shared was real. Even as life pulls them in different directions, a lasting brotherhood remains. Who knows—if it’s meant to be, their paths may cross once again.
What made you want to tell this story right now?
I like to take my listeners on a journey of my real life through my music. I like to highlight the good and bad of it all, so this song is just another story of growth. Another day in the life of Jay.
The song feels personal. Did writing it bring any clarity or closure?
In the past, I’ve rapped about fake friends and I always planned on telling the other story of real friendship, and that’s what this song is about. I honestly couldn’t write it until I had clarity and closure on some things with past friendships. I didn’t want anger or any bad energy anywhere near this song.
How did you balance feelings of love and distance in the song?
It’s maturity. It’s accepting that just because someone isn’t a part of your daily life anymore, it doesn’t mean they still can’t be a part of your life.
You’re juggling music, work, and family. How does that shape your perspective as an artist?
In some ways, it keeps me grounded and makes me more relatable, so I look at the balance as something that works in my favor as an artist.
The chorus feels bigger and more melodic. What inspired that shift?
The chorus is something different. I’ve used melodic choruses in the past, but this one gave the song a different feel. I just wanted to expand my horizons musically.
What was it like seeing the story come to life in the video?
Shout out to DJ Young Samm for creating this dope visual. Seeing this video and how it came out, knowing what we went through to shoot this video, along with the response to it, has been very encouraging. Definitely one of my more prouder moments in this artistic journey.
How important was it to shoot the video in your hometown?
Shooting the video in Houston was everything! The energy around it, the support we got while shooting in different locations, the backdrop, I don’t think we could have done this anywhere else.
Did filming bring back any personal memories for you?
There was a part of the video where I reunited with an old friend, and that part definitely hit close to home because I just had a similar reunion in my personal life with an old friend.
What does it mean to you when fans connect with your music on that level?
It means everything to me because that’s what I do it for. For fans to be able to connect and relate to my music lets me know I’m doing something right.
What can listeners expect next, and anything else you’d like to share before we wrap up?
A lot of new music. The plan is to drop new music every month, and we already have the next 6 months covered with music and visuals, so listeners can expect to see and hear a lot of me.
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